The people we turn to in our need of protection are failing, or at least, we feel that they're failing. We want structure, fair boundaries and safety but what we get is arbitrariness and chaos. If nobody else is protecting us, we have only ourselves to rely on and that is a lonely place to be in. Knowing that this issue is at hand makes it easier to deal with. So let's find a place or a friendship in which safety is given and received, and nourish that.
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